Help Tips for New Mums
Improve self esteem and motivatation
When you are a parent, you may often feel like you are not good enough. If you are feeling that way, it may help to remember to avoid comparing yourself to others, even if they appear to be perfect parents. Keep yourself healthy so you can keep your child healthy, as well. Look after yourself by taking a couple of minutes every day to do something you enjoy, like reading or karate. Also, stay connected with other parents. It is good for you and them.
How best to get children to follow instructions
My kids don’t always listen to me, so it’s fine. Here’s how to get your children and the tiny angels to obey. Move them into the same room, remove distractions, and make eye contact while speaking slowly and clearly. Be polite and calm, and remember to give early warning signals when you want your child to stop. And never plead.
Developing Trust with children
When you are a parent, you may often feel like you are not good enough. If you are feeling that way, it may help to remember to avoid comparing yourself to others, even if they appear to be perfect parents. Keep yourself healthy so you can keep your child healthy, as well. Look after yourself by taking a couple of minutes every day to do something you enjoy, like reading or karate. Also, stay connected with other parents. It is good for you and them.
Positive behaviour
We need to be honest. Our angel children aren’t always good. Are they? That’s good, though. There are some ideas here for us parents to help control our crazy little children. You may want to establish a reward system to encourage your little one to follow the house rules. First, discuss and agree on the rewards. Then, you can use them to encourage effort by rewarding those who try as well as succeed. Also, it is important to clarify what you are rewarding, and to never go back on a promise. Finally, record these achievements on a chart because you will hear about them if you don’t.